Purple Person, how do you know when you've received a private message?
This all strikes me as ironic. Many individuals and agencies began using email as the preferred communication vehicle following the anthrax scare. Now, many of us are afraid to use email.
I heard the other day that the IRS now prefers to receive communications by fax or phone because of concerns with the mail.
Oddly enough, Hotmail seems well-suited for managing email, at lest in this respect. If you belong to a mailing list - like the PPFA HH - you can easily filter your mail so that variations of a correct return address will go to the junk folder. Periodically, I take a look at the junk folder and I can empty it with a single click. If something looks legit, I can see if there is an attachment and delete it, or examine it more carefully.
I'm sure other email clients can be set up this way, but it's a very simple process with Hotmail.
Be cautious and diligent, but don't let the virus scare interfere with the way you conduct your life or business. Some of the "precautions" we take remind me of folks who never leave the house for fear of catching some communicable illness.