Best of luck to both of you with your new shops. It's an exciting time. Our shop is only 9 1/2 months old, and we have no regrets. It does get busier and people WILL come in. Some customers have already been back 3 times in that period, and it's very rewarding.
Looking back... finding the Grumble,

getting a good accountant, and getting a POS system were probably the three most important things that happened to us in the past year.
We've also learned to be patient and realize that we won't be taking a pay for at least the first 18 months. All profits are being re-invested towards advertising and marketing.
The things that have worked best for US so far have been FramerSelect, Val-pak, and direct mailings to homes. The absolute BEST source we ever had was a free write-up done by a small local newspaper on 5/1/02. People STILL come in weekly because of that article, and it was free for the asking. They put a full color picture of us on the cover, and 3 other pictures inside with a story. Since we were also running ads, they were glad to do so. Most newspapers will do a free story for new businesses, if you ask.
The LEAST effective advertising, believe it or not, was the Yellow Pages. ~1k/month down the drain, and only THREE customers came in so far with the coupons or mention of the yellow pages. Fortunately, that contract ends this month and we'll be shrinking the size of the ads. (3 books)
These are just our opinions and experiences, your actual mileage and results may vary
What works for one person, may not work for someone else. There's a lot of advice and opinion out there, its important to form your own plan.
BEST OF LUCK!
Mike L
Get The Picture, LLC
Lincoln, RI