NIGHTMARE ON FIRST ST.

Janet

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I've been beating myself up for several days now over something that happened in our frame shop.

Back in September, a new customer brought in 2 small blue Bibles, 2 pairs of baby socks, 2 Feltman Bros. infant rompers, 2 satin bibs with blue crosses monogrammed on the front of each. She wanted me to do a shadowbox for each of her twins. I quoted her the price after we agreed on the design. She said she could only pay for one at the time, pd. her deposit for the first one and was ecstatic when she picked up the first completed shadowbox. Asked if I could wait a little while longer before starting the 2nd job. As I didn't want them to end up looking like exact duplicates (placement wise of the items, I agreed). Called her in late November and suggested that we should begin the 2nd one to insure it would be hanging in her home to enjoy during Christmas holidays. She asked that I once again delay starting the job as things "are tight" with twins, Christmas shopping, etc.

Well, she came in last month and was ready for me to begin the job and said she'd like to pick it up the end of March. This past Tuesday, I cut the mats, mounting board, etc. Began to place the little outfit on the mounting board and realized the bag with all the little other items was no where to be found. For the next 9 hours, we tore apart our frame shop and looked for that bag in every single nook and crannie but to no avail. My head was throbbing, my stomach was rolling and I was to the point of looking for a tall cliff to jump from.

The bag IS NOT IN OUR SHOP. Went through all the creative ideas of trying to figure out where I could purchase the socks, bib (I do monogramming and could have done that job although I would have had to let the customer know I needed the original framing back to scan the cross) and I also could find another small Bible and have it imprinted). My consciemce got the best of me! I kept thinking if this was my son's articles of clothing, I'd be really pissed if someone tried to pull the wool over my eyes regarding the replacements without my knowledge.

At 10:00 that night, I called the customer (who just so happens to be married to an attorney). I told her the truth. I must have said I'm sorry 5 thousand times in that conversation. She was the nicest, most understanding person I've ever talked with regarding any type of faux pas (which I've never had) like this. She said she accepted some of the responsibility as she should never have left the items with me for that length of time and that sh** happens!

Naturally, I'm going to do everything in my power to replace the items, but she even suggested that we wait till next week and let her go thru her son's "stuff" and she's sure that she'll be able to come up with some other items to put around the little outfit.

The reason I'm posting this thread is to warn all of you to be exceptionally careful about where you place items, how long you're willing to keep items, make sure your customer signs the info at the bottom of your form regarding the frame shop's responsibility, and also cover yourself properly with insurance.

The god's were smiling on me with this particular customer... and in the end she will get a beautiful, FREE shadowbox and I'll NEVER experience a loss of items like this again.

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How cheap do you want it to look??
 
Relax! Two weeks from now you might find it where you least expect it. This has happened to me several times over the years and within a few days lost things just show up. I find them where I put them for safe keeping.

Good Luck!

Nothing was ever lost, just misplaced or moved.
 
The biggest lesson here is, Be honest with your customer.
Every time I have ever tried to get "slick" with a customer, I always ended up with egg on my face.
Every time I've been honest and forthright with a customer, I've come out of it smelling like a rose.

John
 
This brings back nightmares of a particular interior designer who, when told that we had misplaced her clients' portraits, barged into the back of the shop and systematically began going through EVERY SINGLE PREP BIN and sleeve that we had.....bitching the entire time, screaming that she was going to sue us, etc., etc.

Of course the damn thing was sitting on the counter top under someone else's work order; it was right in front of us the entire time. *sigh*

But Janet, I think your customer deserves a nomination for sainthood....where are THOSE customers whenever my shop screws up? LOL Good for you for being honest with her; reminds me of those few times I mustered up the courage to tell my parents the truth, and the result was far less terrible than I had been imagining. LOL

JUST REMEMBERED:

We have a customer who has spent over a thousand dollars on multi-openings and frames of all his old family pictures, and we have lost an entire envelope of them. I'm just happy that I never went NEAR that order, because when I left work yesterday, they still hadn't found the pictures and everyone was going gray.

So wish us luck, will you?
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BTW, this customer will never be nominated for sainthood...he comes in drunk all the time, and gets a bit out of hand, but because he spends so much, we've all overlooked it. *groan* I just hope he's sober when he hears what's happened.....

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I don't care what color your sofa is.
 
Charles didn't eat them did he?
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I think that most have had similar experiences of losing/misplacing an item. It is a gut wrenching experience and can leave you in shock for some time. Personnally I fully support the way you have handled the matter, very well done.
Try to kick back and relax as Framer said, it is very possible that the missing articles turn up, even if they don't, you did the right thing.

Best wishes
Kid'o
 
You handled it well, Janet. I'll bet you have a customer for life. I hope it is still in your shop, yet undetected. Things do have a way of turning up after a while.

A good rule for all of us is to never ever throw anything in the garbage with out checking the contents. Unfold every piece of paper, look on both sides of every board that goes into the can, search every bag and sack with no exception. That way you know that items never leave your store unless someone takes them elsewhere either by mistake or intent.
 
What a wonderful customer you have!

This is a good example of how the employer has to face the most awful moment, as being the owner of a business.
 
Thanks for all your replies on this particular nightmare. ( No, Charles said he didn't eat the bag. I checked with him first. LOL) Gosh, that's the first funny thing I laughed about regarding this loss!

I keep racking my brain wondering where I might have put these items for "safe keeping". Damn, it's tough when you are 49 years old and realize that you 1) forget names all the time, 2) forget words you're trying to use in a sentence, 3) forget where you've hidden items, etc. Don't y'all think it would be great if everyone's name was tatooed on their foreheads at birth?

This "loss of items" has kinda taken the wind out of my sail for the rest of the week. We've gotten a lot of work out and I've taken a lot of work in, but not with the same amount of enthusiasm I normally have. I keep half my mind wondering could I have actually "thrown away" these keepsakes?

Maybe Charles & I should hold a big Easter Egg Hunt in our shop and invite all the local kids. I could let them know that if they find a bag filled with booties, a bib and a Bible, they win the GRAND PRIZE!

Anyway, thanks to all of you for sharing. I now know how much losing something must've worried each of you also.

Janet

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How cheap do you want it to look??
 
Maybe St. Anthony can help? I'm not Catholic but my Wife is. One day I was looking for my Grandfather's Antique Gold Pocket watch that I always kept in a particular drawer in my dresser. No where to be found, so my wife says that she would ask St. Anthony to find it (In return for a donation to the church. Usually just a few dollars). Sure enough when I got up the next morning it was in the drawer. My Wife and I can't explain it but you never know. I don't know if you need a Catholic to make the request, but it couldn't hurt to try even if you don't have one.

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curlyframer, CPF
 
You guys are GREAT!!

Thanks for all the support you've given Janet. You have no idea, or maybe you do, how upsetting this thing has been for her. I'm so proud she handled it the way she did.

Curly, I'm not a Catholic, but St Anthony sounds like a good idea. I had actually thought about calling in an exorcist, until Janet resolved things with the custoner!!

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May all your corners join without sanding
 
What a stitch
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You don't have to be Catholic: St. Anthony is an equally- ecumenical finder. Same for selling a house: bury St. Joseph in the front yard upside down.
 
JPete: nah! I'd have been afraid that I might misplace it at my house. I find things months after I need them at home because I've put them in such a secure place. Like hiding Christmas presents and finding them weeks after Christmas.

So far as the shop...We really don't have any places that we haven't looked besides the gutters outside the bldg. or inside the toilet tank! I promise you, there's not an inch that we didn't comb in the search. I promise all of you one thing: Y'all will be the 2nd folks that will know IF I do find these items...my customer will be the 1st!

As to having anyone pray to a saint for me, I don't know if the saint would listen as I was raised in a Jewish household. MM, I'm too lazy to look up that word you used but I think it means that anyone can use the saint. (That didn't sound right the way I typed that). I'll try to find a saint on my next trip into town!

Love to you all for caring! Janet

PS This week has kinda been like
IF IT WEREN'T FOR BAD LUCK, I'D
HAVE NO LUCK AT ALL!

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How cheap do you want it to look??
 
<BLOCKQUOTE>quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Janet:
JPete: nah! I'd have been afraid that I might misplace it at my house
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I think you might have misread what Jpete said and I was going to suggest the same thing. THE CUSTOMER'S HOUSE????

I had the same experience as you and confessed to the customer and offered to make amends by replacing the needlework piece. About a week later she phoned me to say that she found it at home.
I had forgotten to make a note on the job sheet that she had taken it home to fill in some missed stitches and so had she!
All that heartache and wasted time searching!!! Rhubarb, Rhubarb, Rhubarb!!!

*** What has four legs and an arm? A happy pit bull. ***
 
As far as the patron saints of framers go, I'd like to nominate St. Jude, the Patron Saint of Lost Causes.
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I believe he sponsors cops as well....and except for that annoying young man who didn't believe that my spedometer didn't work, I'm happy to share St. Jude with them, too.

The saddest footnote is that my spedometer really DIDN'T work. LOL

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I don't care what color your sofa is.
 
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