Barb, It's funny how the memory is. I remember getting hit and waiting for the police, and the cop being a jerk all the while my three witnesses were still freezing and needed a tow... cop wouldn't listen.
I remember driving down to Reno and taping plastic over the passenger window of my truck and that faster than 37mph the whole truck shook so bad it would wander all over the road [the frame was bent 3.75"].
I remember starting up Donner summit and thinking it was going to be a long cold night getting back to San Jose 150 miles away or so. And I remember the snow falling.
I don't remember that the pass was "Chains required", or getting home, or unloading the valuables out of the truck, or driving to the hospital, or getting rushed to surgery.
I do remember waking up late the next day and my doctor quietly reading and sitting with me. My roommate was sleeping in the other chair.
I looked at James [my doc] and said "thanks for pulling me off the asphalt" and slipped back into the coma.
Through all the surgeries, hundreds of pounds of ice packs to save my life, and an amazing doc and friend and a room mate who brought me the best tasting scorched mac & cheese....
The Grumble would have been a very good thing. I spent a lot of time "frozen" [trying not to move the body] in front of the computer when my body wasn't packed in ice so I could sleep in front of the TV. The TV was on 24/7 with the sound just high enough for me to hear as back ground, and the pictures to give the eyes some exercise, but I had no idea what I was watching, what was on, or what time of day or even what day it was.
My room mate wandered in with food [?] and made me eat, then helped me to the bathroom and once a week showered me down. She even had to brush my teeth.
And let me tell you, that is some kind of weird.
Several frame shops had my home phone and they seemed to rotate checking up on me.
One even brought me some home made soup a few times, all the way from Sacramento, 85 miles away.
I've framed in crutches many times, even a wheel chair for a while, an I gotta tell you, that boot [Darth Vader] was the greatest thing to come along. The foot still hurts some, I don't walk correctly but I'm in matching shoes now... [Crocks are sooooo forgiving] so the cut and scrapes, I'll take.... as long as I can keep framing, it's a good day.
