"By and large, they are either looking for Socially Acceptable Welfare or have an uneducated view of reality."
10 years ago I would have wholeheartedly agreed with you
10 years ago I was married to a boy in the army . I say boy because thats what he and his army friends were. They were not men. They were mostly boys who screwed up in high school and couldn't get into college and thought the army was "easy money" A couple were in the army because a judge gave them a choice of Army or jail on drug charges.
They learned nothing about the real world. They learned that no matter how fast after payday they spent their check, they had food, clothing and a place to stay. No matter how late they were or how much they goofed off, they still had a job because the army needed the bodies. The toughest place any of them ended up was a bar in Korea, where not much else was happening.
Now, that boy and I are divorced. He may or may not still be in the army, i dont know where he is. He may be in Iraq. I hope hes ok, wherever he is.
Now, I have many friends who joined the military knowing FULL WELL what they were getting into and where they were going. Many, BECAUSE they knew. And I thank them and respect them.
Tonite, I am going to go stand outside the funeral home where a wake is being held for a soldier KIA in Iraq. I am part of the Patriot Guard. A bunch of people, mainly motorcyclists, who go to wakes and funerals of soldiers and show our respect by holding the American flag. Patriotguard.org. Sometimes we are blocking the family of the soldier from seeing protesters gathered nearby making a ruckus.
My opinion of soldiers has changed, quite a bit. But so have times.