I have gone through three employees since the first of the year - two I let go because they weren't good enough, one quit because (I think) her boyfriend/fiance didn't like her driving into Baltimore City from the 'burbs. We're a three person shop, my second in command has been with me for 7 years, but I can't find that crucial third. The last "third" before this bad run was with me two years and left after graduating with her MFA - as well she should have. I pay well (for this industry), offer vacation and health, etc. I know I'm obnoxious, demanding, stupid, and I smell bad, but am I the only one who is having this problem?