Susan,
I am going to approach this problem from an entirely different angle. (Sorry for the apparent pun.)
Many times, when you set your underpinner to drive the V-nail at the outer point of the miter, you may have a tendency to place the V-nail too close to the edge of the corner. In this case the V-nail, as it enters the wood, will displace and push the wood fibers away from the entry point. If you are too close to the point of the miter, say 1mm - 3mm, the V-nail will actually push the corner apart in an attempt to displace the wood that is in its path into the miter.
Is the spread of the lower part of the miter (the gap that you see) about the same height and approximate thickness as the size of the V-nail that you are using? If so, trky setting your outer stop of your V-nailer further in from the point of the miter. I use a Euro underpinner and I have found that, when I see this problem when joining a frame, it disappears as soon as I move my outer stop a little bit inboard and place the V-nail further away from the outer point of my frame corner.
This doesn't occur anywhere else on a miter joint because there is enough strength in the thickness of the wood to allow the wood fibers to compact within the miter as the V-nail is forced into the joint.
This or any of the other suggestions made above may just be the answer to your problem.
Framerguy